With someone who is already exhausted, desperate, and emotionally out of control, there's no point in talking sense; they won't be able to hear it.
Right now, Qian is using empathy to express her understanding, aiming to relieve the psychological pressure.
When someone has reached their limit, what they want to hear is someone else's acknowledgment. At this moment, just agree with whatever they say.
"Your family situation is truly unfortunate, but I sympathize with you the most. You're a woman, and it's not easy for you. Do you have kids? You've left them behind, rushing around for your brother's issues. It's really difficult for you."
"Isn't it just, though? I lost my husband two years ago, and my in-law's family kicked me out. I could only return to my parents' home. Thankfully, my brother didn't mind and gave me food. Now that my brother is like this, can I just ignore it? Sister, my brother is not a bad person, he's not..."
