"For a person, having everything go too smoothly isn't a good thing; if life is too smooth, you can't stand up to real trouble. A life full of setbacks may be rough and pitiful, but it forges a spine of steel. As for you, you're naturally someone who takes responsibility, no worse than your elder brothers. But your methods in handling matters are lacking; you're too soft-hearted. Many things aren't finished just because you've taken responsibility. You need to carefully think this whole matter through from beginning to end—why did such a thing happen, what should you do once it has happened, and after you take responsibility, what consequences will that bring?"
