"And I am angry at that boy for what he did to us, but I won't go after him. For what your father had done to him, that boy had taken his revenge, but you shouldn't. You should not stop living your lives because of your tempered feelings."
"You have gone against my word twice now, and hereafter, if I see you leave the house, you will not only be fatherless but motherless too."
Yaelena was aware of Hawkin killing Ser'gu and his whole clan. How he massacred the innocent people. She always felt that Hawkin was inhumane and cold, but after hearing it, she thought he was a monster and his whole clan too.
She only married him because her father made her.
So when Jorghan came to the wedding, she wasn't shocked but terrified. After a few days, she had come to terms with Hawkin's death and lived her life, but seeing how her children were going after that boy, she felt angry.
She didn't want to lose her children because of avenging a man who wasn't worth their time.
