The visitor raised his head: "Teacher Nan, you're so young, you probably haven't married yet, right? Can you understand this feeling I'm talking about?"
Nan Zhubin thought about it: "I'm indeed not married. But I can feel a kind of contradictory distress and deep exhaustion from you."
This wording doesn't quite fit conversational habits; in daily life, if someone spoke like this, it would only seem strange.
But it suits the scene at hand. As a consultant, Nan Zhubin acknowledges the shortcomings caused by his age and experience, then brings the topic back to the consultation rhythm through [Empathy].
"Perhaps you can tell me more about your feelings, and what makes you have these feelings."
Saying this, Nan Zhubin adjusted his sitting posture.
He knew that soon the visitor would begin to vent his story like a storm.
Indeed, the visitor suddenly covered his face: "I'm tired... really tired."
