But that's not the main point.
The main point is that many military spouses accept this very calmly, even believing from the bottom of their hearts that men should be like this.
Even those with jobs think that men should work outside while women take care of the home, which is normal.
Conversely, a woman like Yi Chichi, who doesn't cook, doesn't do laundry, and relies on her man to do housework, eating at the mess hall when he's not home, is not considered a good woman.
She personally heard military spouses complain that she's not a good woman and even said that Wen Shi was being wasted on her.
This is also why she only hangs out with Ji Jian and her group, staying away from other military spouses.
There's no point in forcing interactions if the conversations don't align, and their thoughts don't match—if people who are not on the same wavelength try to hang out, it only leads to conflict and no friendship can develop.
