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It's not the matter of how much I am writing it down. The first step of going to ask someone for help is acknowledging that you need help. This is just convince you to get help. Common let's go again.
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Do you know that many people need help and they rather just bottle it up rather than saying it out to get help? I am one of them myself. It took me a long them to go look for help. I'm not saying I used to go get help, but I'm being helped.
Oh, hold on, I get help from the right people. Some times not from my circle of friends. From people who are higher than me.
No, not my parents either! I mean people spiritually stronger than me. Not just anyone, someone who I know will listen and not judge me, will listen and not scold me but rather give me advice accordingly, someone who hold on to my weakness and help me strong with spreading my weakness to anyone who will give them a listening ear.
So yes, even I do need help. Imagine how many people are in need of help?
You many not be capable of rendering them the help they need. But you can just listen to them and hold to their secrets just to help them grow.
Most people in need fo help, a good number of them just want a listening ear if no solution will come out of it.
Be there for them, you don't know who will be there for you as well in your darkest hour.
It will also help you filter out the kind of people you have around you. And I hope that when you do, you will be ready - mentally, emotionally, physically, socially - to let them go.