From there my perception has been changed now there is nobody who will suggest me about my future.I am the only one who have to decide my own path.
"Earlier, going to home used to be very exciting, but now even that happiness has faded because home just brings back the old memories. It doesn't feel like home anymore.loneliness become my new best friend, and honestly, I lost the energy to argue or explain myself to anyone. Met a lot of people-some were great, some were just for their own benefit. and of course ,there were moments when I was in the spotlight as long as I was oncourse, there be sidelined to be later being here really gave me a front seat-row seat to people's limited edition behaviour - one face in front, a completely different one behind you back!"
"loyality is rare – if you find it , keep it; if you don't, walk away."
Some ways to handle these kind of people are-
1 heard their p.o.v to be very calm if you feel genuine take it otherwise skip it at instant.
2 When you don't reply to their action .you might be frustrate but you realized it to be very peacefull.but when you engaged in argue with them thing gets worst .
3 when someone picks a fight, just sit back and enjoy the silence -because, honestly, stupidity doesn't deserve a response .people say all sorts of thing in anger, and some don't even have the self- awareness to realize that they are wrong. So why waste your energy? Let them talk; their words hold as much weight as a broken scale!
4 Remember actions speaks more than words.
Basically I have my own experiences that people who always try to please everyone and try not to hurt anyone is always hurt by others. And in my own journey I thought that if I disagree something that might hurt them but I gradually realized that they took me easy and they have the feeling that she is my follower. But what I had in my mind is that I am her good friend that's why I agree with her but day by day I realized myself to be dumb.
So to overcome from this dumbness I decided to put my points straight and by doing this you realized self-confidence and stop to be follower and try to be alone. Always show that I am okay even without you stop prioritizing them. If they didn't have same kind of friendship that you have for them then try to balance everything.
Excess always provide you pain whether in friendship or in loneliness. Second thing people who share the same kind of bond with everyone is never trustworthy. Because you can never have the same kind of bond with others. May be you loved 20% of your known one ,40% to be just friend upto hello, hii…. And with others might your vibe didn't match, so you avoid talking.
There are some people who have this kind of behaviour that they might be very joker type always laughing face. So people may easily connect with this kind of people. Some people behave in ways that are difficult to understand at first, but over time you begin to notice the pattern. When it is just you and them, they stay very close—talking, sharing, giving attention, making you feel like you genuinely matter in their life. In those moments, it feels warm and real. But when another person joins in, their behavior changes. They shift away, get busy with someone else, and sometimes forget that you are even there. It's not always intentional, but it does make you feel left out. It quietly teaches you how easily some people can move their attention from one person to another, without realizing how it affects the one who is left behind.
There are also people who struggle to admit when they're wrong. It's not that they don't care; often, they just don't know how to accept their mistakes. Maybe admitting fault makes them uncomfortable, or they fear being seen as weak. But their refusal to acknowledge the hurt they caused leaves you carrying emotions. They should have shared responsibility for. It creates a sense of imbalance in the relationship, where one person feels burdened while the other avoids the truth.
Understanding people like this isn't easy, but with time you realize that their behavior reflects their own limitations—not your worth. Some people lack emotional awareness, some lack consistency, and some simply don't know how to communicate honestly. Their actions may confuse you, make you feel ignored, or leave you questioning the relationship, but deep inside, it's a sign of their own unhealed parts, not your shortcomings.
Being around them can still hurt, of course. Their sudden change in attention and their unwillingness to accept their mistakes can leave you feeling unseen or unheard. But understanding them helps you set boundaries and protect your own peace. You begin to see that not everyone who comes close knows how to stay, and not everyone who hurts you does it intentionally. Some people are just emotionally unprepared and their behaviour teaches you to value your own feelings a little more.